Wednesday 13 July 2011

When is the right time to end a relationship?

Ending a relationship no matter how short or long is always a burden to the soul.   If you are in a relationship where you are doing all the heavy lifting. You have to find a way to communicate with your partner and revisit why you are together in the first place. If you are in a relationship and you feel alone and empty - you are in the wrong place - find a new spot to rest.  If you are in a relationship where you are wondering why you are with this person - you need to be honest about what you're feeling and tell your partner.

Sometimes you'll find even though you really love this person - they're  not the one for you.  The few things that makes you think you were meant to be together will one day not be enough to keep you together. The most important thing to remember in this life if you want to maintain high spirit no matter what, is to remember  not everyone who comes into your life needs to stay - some come for a very brief moment, some stay for weeks, months, sometimes even years, then their time is up.  It doesn't matter who they are if you can end an affair and not be bitter or hurt or become hateful then you have received the gifts these visitors have brought you. Don't let your past ruin your present moment - Love them and set them free. This way you are free to love deeply and passionately and be open to receiving the love you seek.

Keep your eyes on the moment - not on what the future will bring you - realize that the future is now - love now - give now - share now - laugh now - cry now - play now and more than anything else feel your feelings now. If you don't, you will traumatize yourself for years to come and soon you will be medicated.

Live your best life ever!

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