The all time mystery has made itself visible. It has only taken me most of my life and a few good relationships with some very good men to understand what makes those simple creatures called men, tick.
It's very simple. Sex, is the most important thing a man wants from a woman. And not just sex, but hot sex, the type of sex they think they can never get from their wives. I'm talking about the kind of hot sex they had with their girlfriends before the vows came into play. Of course, you all know that. How often do you hear both men and women said, "The sex used to be so good when we were dating. We were fucking every night - everywhere, and then bomb, you get married and after about 6-9 months all that passion dries up - dries up to the bone I tell you." Well, ain't that the truth. But it doesn't have to be so.
Well, I believe it is because sex is such a powerful attraction to humans that when those chemical mixture starts to flare up within - one has to have the strength of Samson to hold back.Cause the truth is, sex is very easy - it is by far the path of the least resistance.
Don't get me wrong, women love sex as much as men love sex - the big difference with most women is that they want to have passionate love with someone who really cares for them. Men, well, some men don't even have to be attracted or feel anything deeply for a woman in order to penetrate her. Sad, but true. This is why women give up sex quickly because they know, intuitively that that is where a man's focus is especially in the early stages on the interaction. Now, I can say this honestly, not all men want to jump into the depth out of desperation some do have standards,: most do not, as do some women I should say.
Men love sex because it makes them feel powerful. Men love sex because of their primal urges. Men love sex because it's another method of conquest. They really can't help themselves. Once the little head sees a prey it loses all sense of direction and zero into make the big kill.. They'll talk about how much they want to commit, fact is they'll say and do whatever it takes for them to subdue their prey. Forgive me for using the vernacular of the animal kingdom but really, people, we are animals - we're just at this time, at the top of the food chain.
After sex, men want loyalty and total devotion from the women they're in a relationship with - they want women to back them up - no matter how ridiculous their notions are and yes we do back them up - and stand by them even when they commit the most grievous of malice - embarrassing us in the public domain...as we've seen with all these wives of famous men who've put their hands in the cookie jar.
If you want to get a real kick out of the human psyche you must read my new book on human sexuality and spirituality, titled, Joyful, Soulful Sex: The Modern Woman's Guide to Intimacy and Great Sex. Get your copy today from amazon.ca or from my website: www.joyfulsoulfulsex.com: and have the best read on the subject. - And put some soulfulness in your next lovemaking expression. - And do tell me about it here.
Remember you don't have to lower your standards because you are single. Live your best Life ever!
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