Thursday 28 July 2011
Summer Romance
I love summertime, it gives so much energy to life. The sun, the greenness of the earth in full bloom; blue sky, the warmth of family and friends, making new friends the openness and joy of summer spread even to the birds. And if you're lucky you might have a romance that was given birth in summertime. Summer, the season for endless passion, endless love, endless emotions and endless joy that flows over the brim of life.
Monday 18 July 2011
Steamy, Senuous, Sexy Summer Days
I love summer time, truth be known I love all the four seasons, but summer time is my favorite because it stirs my soul and sends off an array of joy that permeate my being. And I'm not alone, the birds love summer too - as I make my early morning run I'm serenaded by birds of all stripes singing songs of joy, hope and glory for me and all the world to hear. And yes, of course, I say, good morning and thank you for your songs of joy, hope and glory.
Summer gives life to freedom and youthfulness, it brings out the inner beauty of all things - very few souls can escape its joy, its impulsiveness and feelings of flightiness. Yes. I love summer the seasons that gives us plenty of raw food to eat with gusto and vigor. And, when the sun has cooled down a tad, and you might decide to skinny dip in the privacy and security of your heart - you know you're safe because you are being rocked by the steamy, sensuous, sexy summer days of your life.
Live Your Best Life Ever!
Summer gives life to freedom and youthfulness, it brings out the inner beauty of all things - very few souls can escape its joy, its impulsiveness and feelings of flightiness. Yes. I love summer the seasons that gives us plenty of raw food to eat with gusto and vigor. And, when the sun has cooled down a tad, and you might decide to skinny dip in the privacy and security of your heart - you know you're safe because you are being rocked by the steamy, sensuous, sexy summer days of your life.
Live Your Best Life Ever!
Friday 15 July 2011
What men really want from women.
The all time mystery has made itself visible. It has only taken me most of my life and a few good relationships with some very good men to understand what makes those simple creatures called men, tick.
It's very simple. Sex, is the most important thing a man wants from a woman. And not just sex, but hot sex, the type of sex they think they can never get from their wives. I'm talking about the kind of hot sex they had with their girlfriends before the vows came into play. Of course, you all know that. How often do you hear both men and women said, "The sex used to be so good when we were dating. We were fucking every night - everywhere, and then bomb, you get married and after about 6-9 months all that passion dries up - dries up to the bone I tell you." Well, ain't that the truth. But it doesn't have to be so.
Well, I believe it is because sex is such a powerful attraction to humans that when those chemical mixture starts to flare up within - one has to have the strength of Samson to hold back.Cause the truth is, sex is very easy - it is by far the path of the least resistance.
Don't get me wrong, women love sex as much as men love sex - the big difference with most women is that they want to have passionate love with someone who really cares for them. Men, well, some men don't even have to be attracted or feel anything deeply for a woman in order to penetrate her. Sad, but true. This is why women give up sex quickly because they know, intuitively that that is where a man's focus is especially in the early stages on the interaction. Now, I can say this honestly, not all men want to jump into the depth out of desperation some do have standards,: most do not, as do some women I should say.
Men love sex because it makes them feel powerful. Men love sex because of their primal urges. Men love sex because it's another method of conquest. They really can't help themselves. Once the little head sees a prey it loses all sense of direction and zero into make the big kill.. They'll talk about how much they want to commit, fact is they'll say and do whatever it takes for them to subdue their prey. Forgive me for using the vernacular of the animal kingdom but really, people, we are animals - we're just at this time, at the top of the food chain.
After sex, men want loyalty and total devotion from the women they're in a relationship with - they want women to back them up - no matter how ridiculous their notions are and yes we do back them up - and stand by them even when they commit the most grievous of malice - embarrassing us in the public domain...as we've seen with all these wives of famous men who've put their hands in the cookie jar.
If you want to get a real kick out of the human psyche you must read my new book on human sexuality and spirituality, titled, Joyful, Soulful Sex: The Modern Woman's Guide to Intimacy and Great Sex. Get your copy today from amazon.ca or from my website: www.joyfulsoulfulsex.com: and have the best read on the subject. - And put some soulfulness in your next lovemaking expression. - And do tell me about it here.
Remember you don't have to lower your standards because you are single. Live your best Life ever!
It's very simple. Sex, is the most important thing a man wants from a woman. And not just sex, but hot sex, the type of sex they think they can never get from their wives. I'm talking about the kind of hot sex they had with their girlfriends before the vows came into play. Of course, you all know that. How often do you hear both men and women said, "The sex used to be so good when we were dating. We were fucking every night - everywhere, and then bomb, you get married and after about 6-9 months all that passion dries up - dries up to the bone I tell you." Well, ain't that the truth. But it doesn't have to be so.
Well, I believe it is because sex is such a powerful attraction to humans that when those chemical mixture starts to flare up within - one has to have the strength of Samson to hold back.Cause the truth is, sex is very easy - it is by far the path of the least resistance.
Don't get me wrong, women love sex as much as men love sex - the big difference with most women is that they want to have passionate love with someone who really cares for them. Men, well, some men don't even have to be attracted or feel anything deeply for a woman in order to penetrate her. Sad, but true. This is why women give up sex quickly because they know, intuitively that that is where a man's focus is especially in the early stages on the interaction. Now, I can say this honestly, not all men want to jump into the depth out of desperation some do have standards,: most do not, as do some women I should say.
Men love sex because it makes them feel powerful. Men love sex because of their primal urges. Men love sex because it's another method of conquest. They really can't help themselves. Once the little head sees a prey it loses all sense of direction and zero into make the big kill.. They'll talk about how much they want to commit, fact is they'll say and do whatever it takes for them to subdue their prey. Forgive me for using the vernacular of the animal kingdom but really, people, we are animals - we're just at this time, at the top of the food chain.
After sex, men want loyalty and total devotion from the women they're in a relationship with - they want women to back them up - no matter how ridiculous their notions are and yes we do back them up - and stand by them even when they commit the most grievous of malice - embarrassing us in the public domain...as we've seen with all these wives of famous men who've put their hands in the cookie jar.
If you want to get a real kick out of the human psyche you must read my new book on human sexuality and spirituality, titled, Joyful, Soulful Sex: The Modern Woman's Guide to Intimacy and Great Sex. Get your copy today from amazon.ca or from my website: www.joyfulsoulfulsex.com: and have the best read on the subject. - And put some soulfulness in your next lovemaking expression. - And do tell me about it here.
Remember you don't have to lower your standards because you are single. Live your best Life ever!
Wednesday 13 July 2011
When is the right time to end a relationship?
Ending a relationship no matter how short or long is always a burden to the soul. If you are in a relationship where you are doing all the heavy lifting. You have to find a way to communicate with your partner and revisit why you are together in the first place. If you are in a relationship and you feel alone and empty - you are in the wrong place - find a new spot to rest. If you are in a relationship where you are wondering why you are with this person - you need to be honest about what you're feeling and tell your partner.
Sometimes you'll find even though you really love this person - they're not the one for you. The few things that makes you think you were meant to be together will one day not be enough to keep you together. The most important thing to remember in this life if you want to maintain high spirit no matter what, is to remember not everyone who comes into your life needs to stay - some come for a very brief moment, some stay for weeks, months, sometimes even years, then their time is up. It doesn't matter who they are if you can end an affair and not be bitter or hurt or become hateful then you have received the gifts these visitors have brought you. Don't let your past ruin your present moment - Love them and set them free. This way you are free to love deeply and passionately and be open to receiving the love you seek.
Keep your eyes on the moment - not on what the future will bring you - realize that the future is now - love now - give now - share now - laugh now - cry now - play now and more than anything else feel your feelings now. If you don't, you will traumatize yourself for years to come and soon you will be medicated.
Live your best life ever!
Sometimes you'll find even though you really love this person - they're not the one for you. The few things that makes you think you were meant to be together will one day not be enough to keep you together. The most important thing to remember in this life if you want to maintain high spirit no matter what, is to remember not everyone who comes into your life needs to stay - some come for a very brief moment, some stay for weeks, months, sometimes even years, then their time is up. It doesn't matter who they are if you can end an affair and not be bitter or hurt or become hateful then you have received the gifts these visitors have brought you. Don't let your past ruin your present moment - Love them and set them free. This way you are free to love deeply and passionately and be open to receiving the love you seek.
Keep your eyes on the moment - not on what the future will bring you - realize that the future is now - love now - give now - share now - laugh now - cry now - play now and more than anything else feel your feelings now. If you don't, you will traumatize yourself for years to come and soon you will be medicated.
Live your best life ever!
Tuesday 12 July 2011
The Art of real friendship.
One of the things I treasure the most in my life are my friends. People who know me quite well, knows how devoted and loyal a friend I am. Of late I'm noticing that friendship doesn't seem to mean a lot to some people. Their friendship is as tenuous as the wind - you never know which they it will blow.
Friendship, like every other type of collaboration between humanity requires honesty, integrity, thoughtfulness, consideration, compassion and above all, love. A friend jokingly said to me that she hopes when she dies it will be in the winter time when people are home because if it's summer her friends will all be at their cottages or busy soaking up the great Ra's energy. I thought, she's right. The real meaning of friendship has been lost - we have hundreds of connections but no real friends. We have a stream of social network - yet - we don't talk to each other - we make it look like we are talking to each other.
Let us get back to the fine art of friendship, where loyalty is really huge, devotion is heartfelt, compassion is constant, honesty a bridge that binds, forgiveness is paramount and love is freedom.
I give thanks for my family and friends. New friends and friends I am yet to meet, and for all the inhabitants of the universe. Live your best life ever!
Namaste.
Friendship, like every other type of collaboration between humanity requires honesty, integrity, thoughtfulness, consideration, compassion and above all, love. A friend jokingly said to me that she hopes when she dies it will be in the winter time when people are home because if it's summer her friends will all be at their cottages or busy soaking up the great Ra's energy. I thought, she's right. The real meaning of friendship has been lost - we have hundreds of connections but no real friends. We have a stream of social network - yet - we don't talk to each other - we make it look like we are talking to each other.
Let us get back to the fine art of friendship, where loyalty is really huge, devotion is heartfelt, compassion is constant, honesty a bridge that binds, forgiveness is paramount and love is freedom.
I give thanks for my family and friends. New friends and friends I am yet to meet, and for all the inhabitants of the universe. Live your best life ever!
Namaste.
Monday 11 July 2011
Honesty - the bedrock of a sincere relationship.
Many relationships have died a swift and agonizing death because lovers do not know how to communicate honestly with their mates. They hold back their true feelings out of fear that they're going to lose the one they want or the one they're with. But fact is, in the long run you're better off to be truthful up front regardless of what is at stake because the lies will be discovered anyway.
Most relationships end within 6-9 months because of boredom - lack of communication - dried up sex - the unveiling of the real self emerges and everyone runs for cover. People can only pretend and lie for a very short period of time unless of course you are Arnold the sperminator, Casey Anthony - Tiger Woods and the host of politicians who are caught with their pants down. - these are people who can lie for an extended period of time - They lie so well that it becomes the truth to them.
Most relationships end within 6-9 months because of boredom - lack of communication - dried up sex - the unveiling of the real self emerges and everyone runs for cover. People can only pretend and lie for a very short period of time unless of course you are Arnold the sperminator, Casey Anthony - Tiger Woods and the host of politicians who are caught with their pants down. - these are people who can lie for an extended period of time - They lie so well that it becomes the truth to them.
Saturday 9 July 2011
Dealing with yourself first
To find the best relationship you imagine begins with the relationship you have with yourself. First question to ask the self is this, Would I want to be in a relationship with me? Consider deeply this answer because whoever you are that is what you get. It doesn't get any better than that dealing with the love that you are will lead you to the love you desire.
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