Saturday 7 April 2012

Images of Charm - Youtube Video

I have a new video: view it on Youtube - beautiful artistic nudes!Images of Charm

Why People Lie?

A couple of weeks ago I read a book review - titled - Why Men Lie?  I read the book review and in a nutshell the author, a journalist said, "...The first person a man lies to is his mother and that they lie because they don't want to be punished...?  I beg to differ it's not only men who lies. Women lie as much or perhaps even more.

My daughter Chris and I were having a conversation and I stated emphatically, "Men are such liars." And the young one replied, "It's not men that lie, people lie. I lie."

That's it! She is telling the truth. We all lie from time to time. Some of us tells little white lies because we don't want to hurt anyone...(Check out my book: Joyful, Soulful Sex, The Modern Woman's Guide to Intimacy and Great Sex - and see the chapter on "Honesty"). But as far as I am concerned a lie is a lie whether grave or otherwise. When we lie we take from the other the opportunity for them to make an informed decision.  Some people will even tell half truths - hinting at something far more profound until you are caught in their web of deceit.

I believe fear is what drives people to lie.  Fear of rejection. Fear of being found out to be shallow. Fear exposing one true self.  Fear of being alone. Fear of being vulnerable.  This last one is the one that really drives a person to lie. Many years ago, I decided to free myself from these little trivial lies, you know  what they are "white lies..." These lies have the capacity to transform a wonderful human being into a profound liar. My mother,  when she was alive would always say, "I'd rather have a thief around me than a liar because a thief will steal what they need and leave but liar remains hidden and constant." I'm with her.

So, if you want people to be honest with you, first thing first start by being honest with yourself.  Start admitting your little fears and accept them.  Start to live a more authentic life with transparency and honor and you will be sure to live a of joy, peace and tranquility.


Live your best life ever.



P.S. I got a new video on YouTube !

Charm