A Little patience goes along way.

Recently, I met a couple who have been married for 10 years and are now calling it quits because as the female partner told me her man just can't get it up anymore and he doesn't even try to please her sexually.  I understand the sex part completely, but to be honest with you I wouldn't be too quick to put him under the bus especially if he has other fine qualities.  Here's a man who is witty, bright, intelligent, gentle and sensitive and most importantly he is  gainfully employed and devoted to his family.  These are some of the qualities that most women and men are looking for in a partner. Of course, sex is important, very important to me but equally important is to have that someone with whom I can share my deepest and darkest with. Someone whom I can rely upon, someone to pick up the slack when I'm down. 

There are so many things a good man can do to excite and arouse a woman into sexual frenzy  without even taking his cock out of his pants. A man with a keen imagination and who has desire for his partner can make magic happens with his tongue and his fingers. And of course if and when push comes to shove and she wants to feel something hard within her vineyard then there is always, the man made ever ready willy on call, 7/24/365 if you want it. 


So if your man is experiencing erectile dysfunction and you are a horny rabbit, be patient let the love you have for him take hold and give him the chance to really explore your body so he can find creative ways to please and pleasure you.  Don't be too quick to chuck him,  you may chuck him in the end but at least find out if there's really anything left in his reserve and remember, we all have reserve.One last thing to think about.  If you want to come to your senses, try to imagine life with your partner in your grey days.  If you require more than sports on television to keep you excited then you had better make sure you can have a meaningful conversation with this soul because in the end, that's basically what it comes down to. Unless of course, you're still quite a horny rabbit then make sure you have sex and good conversations with the old boy:-)