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Why People Lie?

A couple of weeks ago I read a book review - titled - Why Men Lie?  I read the book review and in a nutshell the author, a journalist said, "...The first person a man lies to is his mother and that they lie because they don't want to be punished...?  I beg to differ it's not only men who lies. Women lie as much or perhaps even more.

My daughter Chris and I were having a conversation and I stated emphatically, "Men are such liars." And the young one replied, "It's not men that lie, people lie. I lie."

That's it! She is telling the truth. We all lie from time to time. Some of us tells little white lies because we don't want to hurt anyone...(Check out my book: Joyful, Soulful Sex, The Modern Woman's Guide to Intimacy and Great Sex - and see the chapter on "Honesty"). But as far as I am concerned a lie is a lie whether grave or otherwise. When we lie we take from the other the opportunity for them to make an informed decision.  Some people will even tell half truths - hinting at something far more profound until you are caught in their web of deceit.

I believe fear is what drives people to lie.  Fear of rejection. Fear of being found out to be shallow. Fear exposing one true self.  Fear of being alone. Fear of being vulnerable.  This last one is the one that really drives a person to lie. Many years ago, I decided to free myself from these little trivial lies, you know  what they are "white lies..." These lies have the capacity to transform a wonderful human being into a profound liar. My mother,  when she was alive would always say, "I'd rather have a thief around me than a liar because a thief will steal what they need and leave but liar remains hidden and constant." I'm with her.

So, if you want people to be honest with you, first thing first start by being honest with yourself.  Start admitting your little fears and accept them.  Start to live a more authentic life with transparency and honor and you will be sure to live a of joy, peace and tranquility.


Live your best life ever.

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Self Knowledge - Self Love

There is something to be said about knowing thyself. Once you know who you are and what you stand for your life begins to take shape into everything you've ever dreamed it to be. Self knowledge invites wisdom and understanding and you realize you really don't have to engage in useless never ending arguments that has no beginning and no end.

For instance, at times I feel this incredible desire to experience deep love for another - this yearning it turns out is for love of self.  It's amazing that our entire journey on this planet in this form is to experience ourselves as LOVE.  That's it very simple, we know intuitively that our nature is love and somehow we got separated from our inner joy ever since then we've been looking for ourselves - a mirror to reflect that beauty that we are.

Wow...and that's when I realized that falling in love with myself is the love that is first required before all other loves follow. It is a wonderful feeling to bathe in this epiphany knowing that the greatest love is love of self, to be patient and kind, to be tender and honest in what we feel about ourselves and not to be too harsh in judgement or too self critical.  It is all good - to be gentle with ourselves as we are our own redeemer.

Dealing with yourself first

To find the best relationship you imagine begins with the relationship you have with yourself.  First question to ask the self is this, Would I want to be in a relationship with me? Consider deeply this answer because whoever you are that is what you get. It doesn't get any better than that dealing with the love that you are will lead you to the love you desire.